Step 1
Love yourself - and show it, using body language: Sit up straight, make eye contact and shake hands firmly. There's nothing sexier than self-confidence.
Step 2
Be approachable. Again, here's where body language can help - face the person with your arms uncrossed, make eye contact and smile with sincerity.
Step 3
Plant some romantic seeds - put the idea of romance in his or her head without being too obvious. For instance, do thoughtful things for your soon-to-be suitor to show that you are going out of your way for him or her; listen with your whole heart when he or she speaks - there is nothing more romantic than to feel someone is really hearing you.
Step 4
Create opportunities for a romantic interlude. These can be either subtle ("I heard that movie got great reviews. We should really go see it sometime.") or much more blatant ("Can I cook for you sometime?")
Step 5
Don't be afraid to make the initial contact. Sometimes, all the other person needs is the green light.
Step 6
Be yourself, and take pride in your individuality. If the other person doesn't appreciate it, you definitely deserve better.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
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